How to Choose the Right Lube

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Why use lube?

It’s a common (and incorrect) assumption that lube is strictly for those with dryness problems. While lube does add a whole new level of comfort to those who may be struggling with their own natural lubrication, it also adds excitement, texture, and flavour to any kind of sex. It can help with a too-big man, condom dryness, breakage, and just generally cutting down the time between arousal and actual lubrication (if it ever comes at all!)

But one lube does not fit all, both for bodies and for certain sexual acts, so when it comes to choosing the right lube, it’s not so cut and dry. Factors like materials, safety, flavours, allergies, sensations, and much more all come into play whether you’re choosing lube for the first time or the twentieth. In partnership with Lubezilla, I’ve created a big ‘ol guide for the safest and most sensual lubricant that fits your particular sexual scenario. Let’s start with the basics first…

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Finding Your Threesome (and More-some)

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So you’ve decided you want a threesome. Or rather, you’ve decided you want a threesome and have already asked all the big questions you need to ask both yourself and your partner(s) to ensure you’re both ready. That’s an entirely different topic though; let’s assume in this case that all you’ve got left in the equation is to find the willing participant.

You could ask a friend, but if you’re like me, you have crippling social anxiety and, quite frankly, no friends you want to bang. So we turn to the magical world of online dating for ~adults~ and hope for the best. But with so many online dating options out thee, and even more popping up for the group inclined, it can be hard to know what you’re getting yourself into. Like traditional dating, there’s always the good, the bad, and the ugly with each, so I’ve tried out the top options to find your threesome (or more!)

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10 Things I Took Home From Eroticon 2017

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By now you know that I’ve been to England and back in pursuit of Eroticon, and I spent some time travelling around the country afterwards, hence why this post is over a week late. I want to congratulate Girl On The Net, Molly’s Daily Kiss, and Dom Signs on an amazing job done for Eroticon 2017 – first year under their watch, first year in London, and I couldn’t imagine it being more perfect! I can’t wait for next year, but until then, let’s reminisce over those whirlwind few days in Camden, with this tag from Written By Jenny – 10 lessons, items, and thoughts that I brought back to Canada from Eroticon 2017!

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5 Way Sex Toys Can Better Your Relationship

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There’s no doubt that sex toys lead to better sex, but sometimes the side effects of that better sex seep into your everyday life, resulting in a happier, more satisfied version of yourselves! If you’ve thought about giving sex toys a try, then I’ve got 5 good reasons to go for it!

Facilitates Communication
By broaching the topic of bringing toys into the bedroom, it forces both of you to ask some important questions, and allows you to be more organically open with each other about some subjects that may have been difficult to approach otherwise.

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Eroticon 2017: Virtual Meet & Greet

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This year will be my first attending Eroticon in London, England, and I’m beyond excited! I’ll take this chance to pass along a HUGE “thank you” to two elements making this possible; first, to the Eroticon crew, for being super generous and giving bloggers like me the chance to attend through their ticket pool. Secondly, to KinkBnB, who will be putting me up in one of their lovely, sex-positive vacation rentals for the weekend!

I’m new to this, but it seems introductions are in order for an Online Meet and Greet before the real deal in two weeks. If you see me, please say hi, because I’m annoyingly introverted. And if you won’t be there, then learn a ‘lil more about me here and keep an eye on Twitter for what I’m sure will be an annoying amount of updates!

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Shop Canada: Interview with Cailey of La Petite Mort

le petit more my tickle trunkcailey le petit more my tickle trunk Late last year, I sat down with Cailey Root, the owner of Toronto’s very own La Petite Mort, to talk about her new store and ask the really hard questions (like whether she’d Fuck, Marry, or Kill the Tantus Rumble). The store is online-based, catering exclusively to Canadians looking for beautiful, body-safe toys without having to go south of the border. She offers a wide selection of curated toys, as well as lingerie, lube, and my favourite – art! Check out La Petite Mort for your Canadian sex toy needs!

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29 Things About Being 29 + Birthday Giveaway!

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It’s my birthday! Today I begin the journey to embrace the last year of my 20’s, and prepare myself for the new adventures of my 30’s. I don’t care about the numbers, I truly don’t. I do care how it seems everyone else does, and keeps annoying me with questions like “You’re almost 30! Are you scared?” No. If I had known what a shitshow turning 22 was going to be, I would have been a lot more scared then, so clearly the number doesn’t make a difference.

Anyway, a lot changes in a year, so here are 29 things that I feel changed in my 29th trip around the sun. (a la Hannah Hart)

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Make Me Feel Something

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I wanted to feel something. Anything. It was why I went there that night, to the bar on the corner that I’d frequented so many times before, but I’m not sure why. Same beer, same music, same regulars; every night, the same people looking for the same thing – something different, in the same place.

He was different, though. I’d never seen his tattoos, his defined arms, his black hair contrasted against ice blue eyes. He was the only thing different in that entire place. We barely needed words; one drink, a brush of the arm, a grab of the ass, and here we are, with his hands around my wrists, pinned above my head, against his bedroom wall and thrusting into me with his kiss.

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Jake & Becky: A High School Reunion

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I’ve been looking for a reason to write more erotica, and Sinful Press provided me with the perfect excuse in this Eroticon 2017 writing competition! The winner receives a ticket to Eroticon 2017, which I really, really want to attend, so here’s hoping I can make you and the judges hot and bothered enough to get me there!

The story is inspired by the above photograph, provided by Molly’s Daily Kiss, and features one of my favourite turn-ons: nostalgia. Enjoy!

It was a wistful, drunken moment following an uneventful high school reunion that brought me to this old haunt of an adolescent fling. Ten years ago, under this bridge was a favourite hangout for Jake & I during my last summer in town; I’d throw stones into the passing river, while he would tag the nearby pillars and walls with whatever crass logo he’d concocted that week.

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Sexy Favourites For October

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It’s safe to say that I don’t do these every month – only the months that are worth reporting. The last time I did one was for Masturbation May, which ended up being undeniably sexy, but October was definitely return of the sex – huzzah!

I’ve got a lot in the works right now (as you’ll see from the several cliffhanger highlights included here), so you can count on another one of these next month, when I finally pull the time out of my ass to post my current works in progress.
Onward!

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