How to Choose the Right Lube

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Why use lube?

It’s a common (and incorrect) assumption that lube is strictly for those with dryness problems. While lube does add a whole new level of comfort to those who may be struggling with their own natural lubrication, it also adds excitement, texture, and flavour to any kind of sex. It can help with a too-big man, condom dryness, breakage, and just generally cutting down the time between arousal and actual lubrication (if it ever comes at all!)

But one lube does not fit all, both for bodies and for certain sexual acts, so when it comes to choosing the right lube, it’s not so cut and dry. Factors like materials, safety, flavours, allergies, sensations, and much more all come into play whether you’re choosing lube for the first time or the twentieth. In partnership with Lubezilla, I’ve created a big ‘ol guide for the safest and most sensual lubricant that fits your particular sexual scenario. Let’s start with the basics first…

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Finding Your Threesome (and More-some)

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So you’ve decided you want a threesome. Or rather, you’ve decided you want a threesome and have already asked all the big questions you need to ask both yourself and your partner(s) to ensure you’re both ready. That’s an entirely different topic though; let’s assume in this case that all you’ve got left in the equation is to find the willing participant.

You could ask a friend, but if you’re like me, you have crippling social anxiety and, quite frankly, no friends you want to bang. So we turn to the magical world of online dating for ~adults~ and hope for the best. But with so many online dating options out thee, and even more popping up for the group inclined, it can be hard to know what you’re getting yourself into. Like traditional dating, there’s always the good, the bad, and the ugly with each, so I’ve tried out the top options to find your threesome (or more!)

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5 Way Sex Toys Can Better Your Relationship

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There’s no doubt that sex toys lead to better sex, but sometimes the side effects of that better sex seep into your everyday life, resulting in a happier, more satisfied version of yourselves! If you’ve thought about giving sex toys a try, then I’ve got 5 good reasons to go for it!

Facilitates Communication
By broaching the topic of bringing toys into the bedroom, it forces both of you to ask some important questions, and allows you to be more organically open with each other about some subjects that may have been difficult to approach otherwise.

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Is Virtual Reality The Next Step In Sex Toys?

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Porn as a concept is meant to tap into your deepest fantasies – threesomes, gangbangs, POV blowjobs – they’re all a part of fulfilling those deepest, darkest desires. The last few years have seen incredible growth in the world of virtual reality, with over 43 million VR users worldwide, so with this revolution well underway, of course porn-makers are taking advantage.

The first adult virtual realities began showing up in late 2014 and haven’t slowed down; with the limited technology at the time, videos were short and low-quality, but now…

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How To Organize & Store Sex Toys

How To Store & Organize Sex Toys

Any sex toy blogger will confirm that as soon as companies start sending you stuff, you’re growing out of your toy box like it’s a pair of baby shoes. The first incarnation of my tickle trunk was a chic metal box from Homesense marked “Tools” that I thought was a clever disguise. Between you and I, I think my Dad might have gone in there while renovating my apartment, but I digress.

I recently upgraded to a new trunk that I can already see myself growing out of, but it’s so PRETTY that I just don’t care. I love to organize my hobbies and seeing a case of nicely displayed sex toys makes my heart skip a beat.

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